When you begin to see yourself the way God sees you, Only’s then will you stop looking for who will see you in order for them to help you.
The man at the Pool of Bethesda was waiting for 38 years for a Man that could push him into the pool in order to be healed. No Man was ready to help him.
Jesus saw him capable of walking again but he was still looking for a man to push him into the pool. Rather than see himself being healed by Jesus, he chose to remain bedridden until he was pushed into the water.
He wanted a man but He needed to be healed!
How see your future depends on what you want or what you need. John 5:5-7
The reason you are yet to come out of that stubborn situation is because you are yet to differentiate between your wants and your needs.
It is said, “Only a fool buys what he wants and begs for what he needs.”
May you not dwell too long in that horrible situation while waiting for a man to help you, where God has given you an idea on how to get out yourself.